Quotes

[A]s I write I think about all sorts of things. I don't necessarily write down what I'm thinking; It's just that as I write I think about things. As I write, I arrange my thoughts. And rewriting and revising takes my thinking down even deeper paths. No matter how much I write, though, I never reach a conclusion. And no matter how much I rewrite, I never reach the destination. Even after decades of writing, the same still holds true.Haruki Murakami

It is by going down into the abyss that we recover the treasures of life. Where you stumble, there lies your treasure.Joseph Campbell

To try and fail is at least to learn; to fail to try is to suffer the inestimable loss of what might have been.Chester Barnard

The ethical progress of society depends, not on imitating the cosmic process, still less on running away from it, but on combating it.T. H. Huxley

We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be.Kurt Vonnegut

If we habitually extinguish boredom with technology instead of allowing the brain to enter default mode, we're essentially letting the thought processes that are supposed to help inform our individual stance towards society be endlessly intruded by that very society.Mariah Olson

The creative process requires more than reason […] I am almost incapable of logical thought, but I have developed techniques for keeping open the telephone line to my unconscious, in case that disorderly repository has anything to tell me.David Ogilvy

Being okay with being okay is a necessary step toward great.Josh Spector

A child free from the guilt of ownership and the burden of economic competition will grow up with the will to do what needs doing and the capacity for joy in doing it. It is useless work that darkens the heart. The delight of the nursing mother, of the scholar, of the successful hunter, of the good cook, of the skilful maker, of anyone doing needed work and doing it well — this durable joy is perhaps the deepest source of human affection and of sociality as a whole.Ursula K. Le Guin

As our island of knowledge grows, so does the shore of our ignorance.John Whacker

Belonging is the innate human desire to be part of something larger than us. Because this yearning is so primal, we often try to acquire it by fitting in and by seeking approval, which are not only hollow substitutes to belonging, but often barriers to it. Because true belonging only happens when we present our authentic, imperfect selves to the world, our sense of belonging can never be greater than our level of self-acceptance.Brené Brown

Plot is a literary convention. Story is a force of nature.Teresa Nielsen Hayden

The Laughing Heart

your life is your life
don't let it be clubbed into dank submission.
be on the watch.
there are ways out.
there is light somewhere.
it may not be much light but
it beats the darkness.
be on the watch.
the gods will offer you chances.
know them.
take them.
you can't beat death but
you can beat death in life, sometimes.
and the more often you learn to do it,
the more light there will be.
your life is your life.
know it while you have it.
you are marvelous
the gods wait to delight
in you Charles Bukowski

Every normal man must be tempted, at times, to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag, and begin slitting throats.H. L. Mencken

If you want to connect with an audience… you have to ignore them when you are making the work. Because if you're making the work for the audience, it's no longer a genuine work. It's no longer authentic. The authenticity is what makes it good. You putting yourself into it, flaws and all. Ugly and all. Beautiful and all. Weird and all. All of those things are what makes people connect. So when I say 'the audience comes last', I do mean it, but the reason the audience comes last is, the audience has to come last – in service to the audience. If you are making it for the audience, you will undershoot the target. If you are making it for yourself, you'll do the best work.Rick Rubin

Writing doesn't actually take that long. It's the long stretches of procrastinating that take up most of your time.Mark Pilgrim

Being a grown-up means taking responsibility for the experiment of your life, without looking for some actual or imaginary parent to stamp it with their blessing.Joe Moran

Pithy sentences are like sharp nails which force truth upon our memory.Denis Diderot

A map of the world that does not include Utopia is not worth even glancing at, for it leaves out the one country at which Humanity is always landing. And when Humanity lands there, it looks out, and, seeing a better country, sets sail. Progress is the realisation of Utopias.Oscar Wilde

If you seek tranquillity, do less. Which brings a double satisfaction: to do less, better.Marcus Aurelius

How do I know what I think until I see what I say?E. M. Forster

Inspiration is for amateurs; the rest of us just show up and get to work. If you wait around for the clouds to part and a bolt of lightning to strike you in the brain, you are not going to make an awful lot of work. All the best ideas come out of the process; they come out of the work itself.Chuck Close

For we each of us deserve everything, every luxury that was ever piled in the tombs of the dead kings, and we each of us deserve nothing, not a mouthful of bread in hunger. Have we not eaten while another starved? Will you punish us for that? Will you reward us for the virtue of starving while others ate? No man earns punishment, no man earns reward. Free your mind of the idea of deserving, the idea of earning, and you will begin to be able to think.Ursula K. Le Guin

Nobody tells this to people who are beginners, I wish someone told me. All of us who do creative work, we get into it because we have good taste. But there is this gap. For the first couple years you make stuff, it's just not that good. It's trying to be good, it has potential, but it's not. But your taste, the thing that got you into the game, is still killer. And your taste is why your work disappoints you. A lot of people never get past this phase, they quit. Most people I know who do interesting, creative work went through years of this. We know our work doesn't have this special thing we want it to have. We all go through this. And if you are just starting out or you are still in this phase, you gotta know it's normal and the most important thing you can do is do a lot of work. Put yourself on a deadline so that every week you will finish one story. It's only by going through a volume of work that you will close that gap, and your work will be as good as your ambitions. And I took longer to figure out how to do this than anyone I've ever met. It's gonna take a while. It's normal to take a while. You've just gotta fight your way through.Ira Glass

We hate poetry that has a palpable design upon us—and if we do not agree, seems to put its hand in its breeches pocket. Poetry should be great & unobtrusive, a thing which enters into one's soul, and does not startle it or amaze it with itself but with its subject.John Keats

Don't aspire to make a living, aspire to make a difference.Denzel Washington

By doing your thing—as opposed to what you think you ought to be doing—you kindle a fire that helps keep the rest of us warm.Oliver Burkeman

…it struck me what quality went to form a Man of Achievement, especially in Literature, and which Shakespeare possessed so enormously—I mean Negative Capability, that is, when a man is capable of being in uncertainties, mysteries, doubts, without any irritable reaching after fact and reason… with a great poet the sense of Beauty overcomes every other consideration, or rather obliterates all consideration.John Keats

We live in the world that exists. The best we can do for the world we want to live in is build it.Lee, 'If The Chosen One Can't Defy Heteronormative Structures, Who Can?'

Better to write for yourself and have no public, than to write for the public and have no self.Cyril Connolly

Moral indignation is jealousy with a halo.H. G. Wells

Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.T. S. Eliot

Experience is what you get when you don't get what you wanted.Thaddeus Howse

One of the saddest pieces of advice in the world is "Oh come now — be realistic." The best parts of this world were not fashioned by those who were "realistic."Richard N. Bolles

The opposite of addiction isn't sobriety, it's purpose.Jimmy Carr

A man who procrastinates in his choosing will inevitably have his choice made for him by circumstance.Hunter S. Thompson

Just start taking what you do less seriously. Consider it your job to do it wrong, embrace the idea that what you are gonna do is going to suck — just make something bad and then criticise it until it's good.Dan Harmon

Nature demands inequality, hierarchy, subordination of the inferior to the superior—but human history [is] a series of revolts against this natural order, leading to ever greater egalitarianism.Norman Cohn

All good ideas start out as bad ones, that's why it takes so longStephen Spielberg

Litany of Gendlin

What is true is already so.
Owning up to it doesn't make it worse.
Not being open about it doesn't make it go away.
And because it's true, it is what is there to be interacted with.
Anything untrue isn't there to be lived.
People can stand what is true,
for they are already enduring it.
Eliezer Yudkowsky

I can write down a few words and make people thousands of miles away, whom I have never met and will never meet, laugh tears of joy and cry tears of true sorrow for people who do not exist and have never existed and never will exist. If that isn't actual literal magic I don't know what is. Neil Gaiman

Experience is not what happens to you; it is what you do with what happens to you.Aldous Huxley

Monsters are real, ghosts are real too. They live inside us, and sometimes, they win.Stephen King

The most sincere compliment we can pay is attention.Walter Anderson

Worthy work carries with it the hope of pleasure in rest, the hope of the pleasure in our using what it makes, and the hope of pleasure in our daily creative skill. All other work but this is worthless; it is slaves' work — mere toiling to live, that we may live to toil.William Morris

Don't become a well-rounded person. Well rounded people are smooth and dull. Become a thoroughly spiky person. Grow spikes from every angle. Stick in their throats like a pufferfish. If you want to woo the muse of the odd, don't read Shakespeare. Read Webster's revenge plays. Don't read Homer and Aristotle. Read Herodotus where he's off talking about Egyptian women having public sex with goats. If you want to read about myth don't read Joseph Campbell, read about convulsive religion, read about voodoo and the Millerites and the Munster Anabaptists. There are hundreds of years of extremities, there are vast legacies of mutants. There have always been geeks. There will always be geeks. Become the apotheosis of geek. Learn who your spiritual ancestors were. You didn't come here from nowhere. There are reasons why you're here. Learn those reasons. Learn about the stuff that was buried because it was too experimental or embarrassing or inexplicable.Bruce Sterling

Don't take advice from people like me who got very lucky. Taylor Swift telling you to follow your dreams is like a lottery winner saying “Liquidise your assets! Buy Powerball tickets! It works!”Bo Burnham

Albert Camus, a great humanist and existentialist voice, pointed out that to commit to a just cause with no hope of success is absurd. But then he also noted that not committing to a just cause is equally absurd. But only one choice offers the possibility for dignity. And dignity matters.David Simon

A man's character is most evident by how he treats those who are not in a position either to retaliate or reciprocate.Paul Eldridge

The most dangerous thought you can have as a creative person is to think you know what you're doing.Bret Victor

What is the point of having free will if one cannot occasionally spit in the eye of destiny?Jim Butcher

The creation of something new is not accomplished by the intellect but by the play instinct acting from inner necessity. The creative mind plays with the objects it loves.Carl Jung

Destiny is not a matter of chance; it's a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for, it's a thing to be achieved.William Jennings Bryan

To be great is to be misunderstood.Oscar Wilde

Curiosity is the very basis of education and if you tell me that curiosity killed the cat, I say only the cat died nobly.Arnold Edinborough

We cannot get anything 'out' of life. There is no little pocket, situated outside of life, where we could steal life's provisions and squirrel them away. The life of this moment has no outside.J Matthews

The most terrifying fact about the universe is not that it is hostile but that it is indifferent; but if we can come to terms with this indifference and accept the challenges of life within the boundaries of death—however mutable man may be able to make them—our existence as a species can have genuine meaning and fulfilment. However vast the darkness, we must supply our own light.Stanley Kubrick

If the muse comes to your bedside, don't tell her you'll fuck her later.Allen Ginsberg

The profoundest mind must also be the most frivolous one.Friedrich Nietzsche

Life isn't divided into genres. It's a horrifying, romantic, tragic, comical science-fiction cowboy detective novel.Alan Moore

Doubt is not a pleasant condition, but certainty is an absurd one.Voltaire

For small creatures such as we the vastness is bearable only through love.Carl Sagan

A good storyteller is a good observer—everything else is just style.Chris Cleave

Practice any art […] no matter how well or badly, not to get money and fame, but to experience becoming, to find out what's inside you, to make your soul grow.Kurt Vonnegut

Failure is unimportant. It takes courage to make a fool of yourself.Charlie Chaplin

And lost be the day to us in which a measure hath not been danced. And false be every truth which hath not had laughter along with it!Friedrich Nietzsche

We are never definitely right, we can only be sure we are wrong.Richard Feynman

We don't forgive people because they deserve it. We forgive them because they need it — because we need it.Bree Despain

There is only one kind of shock worse than the totally unexpected: the expected for which one has refused to prepare.Mary Renault

Your growth as a conscious being is measured by the number of uncomfortable conversations you are willing to have.Kevin Kelly

Much of what we call 'luck' is the macro result of 1,000s of micro actions. Your habits put you in a position where luck is more likely to strike. The Luck Razor: When choosing between two paths, choose the path that has a larger luck surface area.Sahil Bloom

To write something, you have to risk making a fool of yourself.Anne Rice

What makes something real is that it can't be represented to completion.Jaron Lanier

As my mother once said: The boys throw stones at the frogs in jest. But the frogs die in earnest.Joanna Russ

The hottest places in hell are reserved for those who, in a period of moral crisis, maintain their neutrality.John F. Kennedy

All of humanity's problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone.Blaise Pascal

A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects.Robert Heinlein

Collecting the dots. Then connecting them. And then sharing the connections with those around you. This is how a creative human works.Amanda Palmer

Education is not the filling of a pail, but the lighting of a fire.Plutarch

Don't ask yourself what the world needs, ask yourself what makes you come alive, and then go and do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.Howard Thurman

A man is likely to mind his own business when it is worth minding. When it is not, he takes his mind off his own meaningless affairs by minding other people's business.Eric Hoffer

Be ashamed to die until you have won some victory for humanity.Horace Mann

People have only as much liberty as they have the intelligence to want and the courage to take.Emma Goldman

Everyone I meet is my master in some point, and in that I learn from him.Ralph Waldo Emerson

You can fail at what you don't want, so you might as well take a shot at what you do.Jim Carrey

We who lived in concentration camps can remember the men who walked through the huts comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread. They may be few in number but they offer sufficient proof that everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way.Victor Frankl

A goal without a plan is just a wish.Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

All I can do is turn a phrase until it catches the light.Clive James

Beware of the man who talks about putting things in order! Putting things in order always means getting other people under your control.Denis Diderot

Litany of Tarski

If X, I desire to believe that X.
If not X, I desire to believe that not X.
Let me not become attached to beliefs I may not want.Eliezer Yudkowsky

In individuals, insanity is rare; but in groups, parties, nations and epochs, it is the rule.Friedrich Nietzsche

An intellectual is someone whose mind watches itself.Albert Camus

The merit of originality is not novelty, it is sincerity.Thomas Carlyle

What I'm really concerned about is reaching one person. And that person may be myself for all I know.Jorje Luis Borges

The best bridge between despair and hope is a good night's sleep.Harry Ruby

Just because you're winning a game doesn't mean it's a good game.Seth Godin

Requiring one medium to imitate the other inevitably pits strengths of the old medium against weaknesses of the new.Jim Hollan & Scott Stornetta

If you make a fool of yourself, you can do it with dignity, without taking your pants down. And if you do take your pants down, you can still do it with dignity.William Shatner

Suffering turns up when there is […] too big a gap between who a person feels himself to be and who he wants to be.Adam Philips

Fact creates norms, and truth illumination.Werner Herzog

Every valuable human being must be a radical and a rebel, for what he must aim at is to make things better than they are.Niels Bohr

The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it.Flannery O'Connor

Study hard what interests you the most in the most undisciplined, irreverent and original manner possible.Richard Feynman

What we need most of all […] is a sense that we've been attended to, listened to, and worried about. We want our existence to be acknowledged and noted.Joe Moran

Lots of times you don't know what interests you most until you start talking.Holden Caulfield, 'The Catcher in the Rye'

A mind all logic is a knife all blade. It makes the hand bleed that uses it.Rabindrananth Tagore

Alas for those that never sing but die with all their music in themOliver Wendell Holmes

The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.Carl Jung

Acceptance of the unacceptable is the greatest source of grace in this worldEckhart Tolle

You can't be spontaneous within reason.Alan Watts

Peace of mind is an inside job.Anne Lamott

And God, let me enjoy this. Life isn't just a sequence of waiting for things to be done.Ze Frank

The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be.Ralph Waldo Emerson

It's not where you take things from—it's where you take them to.Jean-Luc Godard

It is the paradox of human existence that man must simultaneously seek for closeness and for independence; for oneness with others and at the same time for the preservation of his uniqueness and particularity… the answer to this paradox—and to the moral problems of man—is productiveness.Erich Fromm

The aim of psychoanalysis is not to cure people but to show them that there is nothing wrong with them.Adam Philips

You stink. Prove it. It will go faster. And then, after you write something incredibly shitty in about six hours, it's no problem making it better in passes, because in addition to being absolutely untalented, you are also a mean, petty CRITIC. You know how you suck and you know how everything sucks and when you see something that sucks, you know exactly how to fix it, because you're an asshole… Switch from team 'I will one day write something good' to team 'I have no choice but to write a piece of shit' and then take off your 'bad writer' hat and replace it with a 'petty critic' hat and go to town on that poor hack's draft and that's your second draft.Dan Harmon

Creative people are especially observant, and they value accurate observation (telling themselves the truth) more than other people do. They often express part-truths, but this they do vividly; the part they express is the generally unrecognized; by displacement of accent and apparent disproportion in statement they seek to point to the usually unobserved. They see things as others do, but also as others do not.David Ogilvy

Stop running away and you will be found.Lao Tzu

The reward of our work is not what we get, but what we become.Paulo Coelho

The declared meaning of a spoken word is only its overcoat, and the real meaning lies underneath its scarves and buttons.Peter Carey

None of us really has the ability to understand our path until it's over.Milton Glaser

Intentions matter only in the absence of results. And then, only for the blaming.Rich Burlew

It never gets easier, you just go faster.Greg LeMond

Men will never be free until the last king is strangled with the entrails of the last priest.Denis Diderot

Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art, like the universe itself… It has no survival value; Rather it is one of those things which give value to survival.C.S. Lewis

He who has a why to live can bear almost any how.Friedrich Nietzsche

If you want to know why you do something, stop doing it and see what happens.Michael Singer

It's impossible to please everyone. The question is whether you're disappointing the right people.Adam Grant

Too often, convinced of our own intelligence or success, we stay in a comfort zone that ensures that we never feel stupid (and we are never challenged to learn or reconsider what we know). It obscures from view various weaknesses in our understanding, until eventually it's too late to change course. This is where the silent toll is taken.Ryan Holliday

Often the mind needs the relaxation of inner controls—needs to be freed in reveries or day dreaming—for the unaccustomed ideas to emerge.Rollo May

Those who do not read books have no advantage over those who cannot read books.Anonymous

It's possible to make no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness. That is life.Jean-Luc Picard, 'Star Trek: The Next Generation'

To play a wrong note is insignificant; to play without passion is inexcusable.Ludwig van Beethoven

I have travelled as a loner and have followed a winding path, forming for myself a haphazard culture, full of gaps, a smattering of knowledge. In recompense, I have enjoyed looking at the world from unusual angles, inventing, so to speak, the instrumentation: examining matters of technique with the eye of a literary man, and literature with the eye of a technician.Primo Levi

I’ll never know and neither will you of the life you don’t choose. We’ll only know that whatever that sister life was, it was important and beautiful and not ours. It was the ghost ship that didn’t carry us. There’s nothing to do but salute it from the shore.Sugar (Cheryl Strayed)

Never attribute to malice or stupidity that which can be explained by moderately rational individuals following incentives in a complex system.Douglas W. Hubbard

Stand at the brink of the abyss of despair, and when you see that you cannot bear it anymore, draw back a little and have a cup of tea.Elder Sophrony of Essex

Meaning is not something you stumble across, like the answer to a riddle or the prize in a treasure hunt. Meaning is something you build into your life. You build it out of your own past, out of your affections and loyalties, out of the experience of humankind as it is passed onto you, out of your own talent and understanding, out of the things you believe in, out of the things and people you love, out of the values for which you are willing to sacrifice something. The ingredients are there. You are the only one who can put them together in that unique pattern that will be your life. Let it be a life that has dignity and meaning for you. If it does, then the particular balance of success or failure is of less account.John William Gardner

Until we know we are wrong, being wrong feels exactly like being right.David McRaney

But there are no labor shortcuts for caring, in and of itself, no stretching a little bit of intentionality to provide focused attention across some ever increasing population. Care doesn’t scale; cruelty does. You can’t automate your way around the infinite obligation to the other.Rob Horning

I don't want your love unless you know I am repulsive, and love me even as you know it.Gorges Bataille

The needs, tastes, aspirations and interests of mankind are neither similar nor naturally harmonious; often they are diametrically opposed and antagonistic. On the other hand, the life of each individual is so conditioned by the life of others that it would be impossible, even assuming it were convenient to do so, to isolate oneself and live one’s own life. Social solidarity is a fact from which no one can escape.Errico Malatesta

Fall in love with some activity, and do it! Nobody ever figures out what life is all about, and it doesn't matter. Explore the world. Nearly everything is really interesting if you go into it deeply enough. Work as hard and as much as you want to on the things you like to do the best. Don't think about what you want to be, but what you want to do. Keep up some kind of a minimum with other things so that society doesn't stop you from doing anything at all.Richard Feynman

The best way to have a good idea is to have a lot of ideas.Linus Pauling